The Empath’s Creed In Love

Aaaahhhh you’re in love….AND you’re an Empath…..Bless.

How did you find out you were first an Empath? Well you would be feeling EVERYTHING! You would feel the pain and the suffering, joy, lust, passion and everything else of others and not just people, but animals and plants too. The empath’s ability to feel becomes clairsentient. Their pain becomes your pain, their joy becomes your joy. The energetic boundaries bleed into each other.

You feel so much about the other person and you always look out for your other half’s point of view – yet your boundaries seem to get pushed each and every time. Why?

Because you get them. You understand where they are coming from, you know everything about them, you feel everything from the moment they get up, to the moment that they go to the loo, to the moment that they think about you, to the moment that they lie… And that hurts, it hurts when they decide that you are not the one. It hurts when they decide to cheat, it hurts when they decide to lie to you. This makes it difficult for you to trust sometimes and makes the process of falling in love a bit more painful. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

An Empath in love is a force to be reckoned with, when you go in with all your gifts and you know who you are, you won’t take sh*t from anyone.

When you have clear boundaries, you have self knowledge of who you are and where you come from, you learn to distinguish your feelings from others, then falling in love is a bit easier.

So what do you do? 

Read further on for such riveting life changing information, I promise you!! Are you ready??

THE EMPATH’S CREED

1. Know Thyself. So you can learn to separate your feelings from others.
2. Honour Thyself. And your feelings, they are real.
3. Love Thyself. Because no one will love you more than you.
4. Trust Thyself. The information that you’re getting is real.
5. Be Honest with Yourself and others. Sometimes, even when your voice trembles, speak up and state your truth.
6. Spend time alone. I know sometimes you hate it but go out in nature, talk to the trees, the animals, the ocean, see what they have to say. 
7. Spend more time with animals. They are our besties – unconditional love!
8. Find out a way to clear yourself. Should really be number 1, but find out what works best for you to clear your feelings and everything else from others, whether it’s sage, salt baths etc…
9. Avoid Toxic and Negative people. Including family.
10. Avoid Drama. Including your own.

When we are in love (especially if we are an empath) and we haven’t dealt with our stuff, all our triggers come out, trust me I see this thousands of times, if we need to know things, and we keep on asking again again, does he love me, is he cheating on me, why is this happening, why is that happening? Again and again, especially if you know you are an empath and a lightworker, especially if you know that you have a mission here on this planet, you’ll keep on getting the same lesson over and over….

So how do we avoid this? Work on your stuff, see what triggers you, practice non attachment, love yourself sooooo frikkin’ much that anything or anyone that doesn’t hold that vibration simply leaves, they just piss off. It’s too much, it’s hard work for them…..

How do you know that you’ve worked on you? Simple….what triggered you once won’t trigger you anymore.  You’ll recognise your feelings and you will separate them from other people’s feelings, being alone won’t frighten you, you will occupy yourself with so many things that make your heart sing and last but not least you will be stepping away from drama.  

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Tina O